BE BIG, BAD, and BOLD Right Now!!!

Ladies, you all know what time it is.  Its time to claim your rightful place in today's world.  That means no more excuses and no more half-stepping.  Not claiming your GOD given right to go after your destiny is no longer an option.

As I write this blog every week, I am amazed by the number of BIG GIRLS who personally write me to thank me for helping them overcome their greatest fear...themselves.  I know what its like to watch others do BIG things from afar and wish that was me.  You know what changed all that?  I made a decision that I was going to follow my heart and go after my dreams.

My age, my race, my gender no longer matter and will never stop me from being a BIG GIRL on a mission.  Its all about me doing what's best for me and that is achieving dreams that I thought long ago died in my heart but it didn't.  It just required me to be fearless.  I meant me stepping up to the plate and believing in myself.

That is all that I had to do.  Just be me and go after all that I ever wanted.  When I turned 33, I started blogging hard, working harder on my business and showing people what's possible in this life.

My advice to all of you..

1.  Stop talking about it, BE about it.  No more talking a good game.  Actually step up to the plate and take the first step towards     living your life on your terms.

2.  Get over yourself.  Life is a magnificent, beautiful journey.  Until you actually live it, you are just wasting time.

3.  Get rid of the haters in your life.  If the people around you aren't grinding and supporting your growth, they are keeping you from your destiny.

4.  Know that no matter how BIG the obstacle, RECOGNIZE that it can be overcome with faith and actually believing in yourself.

5.  GO BIG OR GO HOME.  Just be BOLD and just do it!!!

As I said before, I speak from experience.  I went from being a disgruntled attorney who hated her life to actually LOVING the life I am living.  I have been on television and in the papers because I made a decision that my goal was to get press and push my business to the next level.  Everyday I feel blessed that I stepped off the rat wheel and chased my dreams.  Nothing stops me for I never look back and I don't think twice.  I just keep moving forward.

You can do it too.  Dare to be BIG, BAD and BOLD right now!!!  I am behind you 100%.  Let's do this in 2012!!!